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E-mail
received at dog fun on 07/04/01.
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hi,
I would like to know if there is anyone out there
who can help us with STORM. His 2 1/2 years old
and is a boystrous as the day we met him. We are
a family of five - 2 adults and 3 children. Giving
him the name Storm must have been a bad omen, because
he causes no end of stress in our house. We had
a Dobe before storm, sadly he died - and we know,
like humans, no two dogs are alike, but we are having
a very trying time with him. He is a very anti-social
dog, people cannot pass by our window without him
almost attacking the window - he is grumpy, it is
completely impossible to take him for a walk in
the light of day - he hates other animals and people
who are not within the family circle.
Our
vet suggested neutering him - which we did - thinking
that testosterone was perhaps blinding his good
nature - this has not changed a thing! We have tried
all the basic training over and over, but don't
get anywhere with him. He constantly barks outside
in his pen (which is quite big so he's not closed
in a small place) he barks whether he has company
or not. An altogether anti-social dog! We have dogs
all around our area and next door too - but he HATES
them all ! I think it is only a matter of time before
he might bite someone. Our children cannot bring
friends home for fear of the dog. He is so viscious
towards strangers.
We
love him for the dog he is, but cannot continue
anymore with this behaviour. It is causing arguments
amongst the family. In the evenings when the blinds
are closed and we are all settled, is the only time
storm calms down. Can there be an answer for us
- or is there another out there who might give storm
what he needs? With 3 children, & living in a small
village it is becoming very difficult to have him
around. We would like to find a solution other than
giving him away - but if giving him to someone who
can cope with his nature is the best solution for
us - then so be it! Finding this ideal person would
mean a great deal to us - because we would know
Storm would be happy!
PLEASE HELP!
Jade's
reply.
Dear
Fiona and Storm,
Thank you for your e-mail, it sounds as though you
are all having a troubled time at the moment. From
your comments it would seem to me that you have
lots of smaller problems with Storm rather that
one big problem. By identifieing each individual
problem and working on them one at a time you will
have a better chance of making some progress.
Say
to yourself that this week we will be working only
on barking at passers by, and we are not concerned
about any other problem. If you start to make progress
in this area you will become pleased that Storm
is making some progress and this will lower your
stress but probably more importantly this will lower
Storm's stress. He probably spends lots of time
being told to stop that or leave it, and this in
itself might be frustrating or confusing him, this
in turn would help to make him more highly strung.
My point is that I would doubt very much that he
wants to upset everyone and that it is more the
case that he is confused about what his roll should
be and what is expected of him.
When
walking, Jade uses a halty that fits over her muzzle
and the lead clips below her mouth. This gives great
control over her head and helps to stop her from
charging after cats etc when she is out on her walk.
The fact that she has this on also helps to passify
her. If she is going through a difficult stage we
carry a plastic water spray, as she starts to bark
or pull a quick squirt of water is enough to break
her train of thought and calm her (this should not
be over used). Another good tip is to always say
leave when you walk passed another dog and if everything
stays calm make a real fuss of him, possably give
him a reward. Constantly reinforce the positive
things that he does and hopefully he will start
to realise that this is how you want him to behave.
You
must also consider that this could be a big part
of his breeding. As you said in your e-mail no two
dogs are the same and with this in mind have a look
at this link CLICK
HERE You will see that the two lines of dog,
the Kristy line and the Phantom line, are quite
different and it makes quite interesting reading
particularly the difference between being aggressive
and viscious.
I
feel that you should be able to get somewhere if
you can get on top of at least some of his problems.
I would however point out in the strongest possible
terms that you must always consider peoples safety
and you must be the judge of that. If this ever
becomes a serious concern you must seek the advice
of a qualified professional this should be available
through your local vet.
I
wish you, Storm and your family lots of luck
All
the best, Jade the Doberman
As
with the rest of Dog Fun we are only offering advice,
we have learned a lot through our own experience
and would like to further that knowledge with your
help. If you have any good tips or advice that would
help dog owners drop us a line to jade@dogfun.co.uk
and we will display your advice and give you credit
for your help!
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